Santa visited 1st
graders at Chester Community Charter School last week whether you believe it or
not. The
kids were 98 percent black. Santa was 100 percent white. And, you know what?
Nobody cared.
I
read this Bruce Crawley editorial in last week’s Philadelphia Tribune. I found
it introspective and darn right emotional.
When
the old dude with the white beard and red suit walked into the classroom, the
kids from one of the country’s most economically depressed cities, lit up like,
well... a Christmas tree. They literally couldn’t contain themselves. What was
clearly evident was the pure joy on each of their faces at seeing the guy who
was about to make the holiday happier for them. They sang Jingle Bells to him;
he “ho-ho-ho'ed" right back in their faces … and they loved it.
There
were shrieks of total satisfaction when the youngsters ripped the carefully
applied Christmas wrappings from their Barbie dolls, game sets and GI Joe's.
The most commonly heard phrase repeated by the little ones was “This was just
what I wanted!” A few of the braver kids actually ran right up to Santa,
grabbed him by an arm or a leg and thanked him, personally.
One
little girl volunteered to an onlooker that this was “the very first time she
had ever seen Santa Claus,” in real life.
As
difficult as it was for a long-time activist like me to come to grips with, I
have, now, fully realized that the race of Santa Claus only really matters to
those of us who have to bear the adult burdens of racism, economic disparities
and societal divisions.
Read
the entire Bruce Crawley editorial below.
Kids Don’t Care About Santa Claus’s Race
By
A. Bruce Crawley
December 25, 2011
There are still people in
our politically challenged, sharply divided country to whom the “Spirit of
Christmas” is still a very magical thing.
I happened to be in
attendance at a school in Chester, Pennsylvania, last week, during a visit to
first-grade students, by Santa Claus. The kids were 98 percent black. Santa was
100 percent white. And, you know what? Nobody cared.
When the old dude with the
white beard and red suit walked into the classroom, the kids from one of the
country’s most economically depressed cities, lit up like, well... a Christmas
tree. They literally couldn’t contain themselves. What was clearly evident was
the pure joy on each of their faces at seeing the guy who was about to make the
holiday happier for them. They sang Jingle Bells to him; he “ho-ho-ho'ed"
right back in their faces … and they loved it.
The old guy’s assistants
(who happened to be the kid’s teachers, on days when they, themselves, weren’t
decked out in green and red, and wearing floppy hats with white balls on the
top) started to pass out beautifully wrapped gifts – one for each of the
youngsters. The kids were completely ecstatic. They bounced in their seats,
they held their faces, in glee.
One little girl volunteered
to an onlooker that this was “the very first time she had ever seen Santa
Claus,” in real life. Another child pointedly asked Santa, without raising his
hand for permission, where "the reindeer" were.
This was about as real and
as honest as it ever gets.
Still another, more
introspective, young man, towards the back of the room, started to wonder out
loud if he was actually entitled to receive a gift, at all, given, by his own
admission, that he had done a few “naughty” things, over the past year. To his
great delight, Santa “tightened him up,” anyway.
There were shrieks of total
satisfaction when the youngsters ripped the carefully applied Christmas
wrappings from their Barbie dolls, game sets and GI Joe's. The most commonly
heard phrase repeated by the little ones was “This was just what I wanted!” A
few of the braver kids actually ran right up to Santa, grabbed him by an arm or
a leg and thanked him, personally.
By this point, any sane
adult in the room wanted to cry at seeing just how happy this one situation, on
this one day, had made these totally innocent, and certainly deserving,
children.
As I wiped one of my own
tears away … quickly, so that no one really noticed, I began to reflect about
the whole "Christmas thing," about the importance of children and
about their complete belief in what we tell them … up to a point. I also thought
about how sad it was that we, as adults, just like clockwork, are eventually so
successful in making these babies as unbelieving, cynical and non-trusting as
we grownups are, in this country.
How do we do that? Let me
count the ways.
When I talked to my friends
after the Santa Claus visit, one of the first questions was: “Did they have a
black Santa Claus?"
On an intellectual and
cultural level, I knew it was a valid question. It always is … for grownups.
But what came crashing home to me last week, was that the babies, who only
wanted to enjoy a moment when they could enjoy their major fantasy, be happy,
and take home a precious gift, absolutely did not care about that.
As difficult as it was for
a long-time activist like me to come to grips with, I have, now, fully realized
that the race of Santa Claus only really matters to those of us who have to
bear the adult burdens of racism, economic disparities and societal divisions.
Let’s spare the kids all of
that for as long as we can. If a white Santa visits black kids, if a black
Santa visits white kids, if an Asian Santa visits Hispanic kids, so be it.
Trust me, without adults telling youngsters how “inappropriate” that all is,
they won’t mind. They’ll be too busy smiling. I saw it with my own eyes.
The Christmas season with
all of its cultural, religious ideological complexities, still really is for
the babies. Yet, we, too often, want to rush them into our world, to take away,
far too soon, their time of total innocence and their willingness to fully appreciate
kind acts without the need to question a giver's motives.
There’s more: As a former
banker, a large part of my cynicism about the “holiday” was that I had
realized, early on, that there was absolutely no proof that Jesus Christ
actually had been born on, or about, the 25th of December.
I also realized that there
is a strong belief that the day had been selected by retailers who were
interested in clearing out their inventories with a special promotional push,
prior to the close of their books on December 31, the end of the fiscal year.
True or not, coincidence or
not, it was a slick idea when it was originated, and still is today. According
to the National Retail Federation, nearly 20 percent of annual retail sales
last year took place during the “Christmas Holidays” and, for some retailers,
the “season” constituted 25 to 40 percent of their annual goods sold. Do the
young people care about this at all? They don’t know and, trust me, they don’t
care.
Finally, in this age of
political correctness, the Christmas season, curiously, provides us just one
more opportunity to reflect on our differences, and we adults are delighted to
do so, and to leap at the opportunity. As I mentioned earlier, it's a respected
fact that the idea of Christmas harks back to a Christian celebration of the
birth of Jesus Christ. Complicating that, however, is the fact that our country
is now, more than ever, comprised of millions of people who aren’t Christian at
all.
In years past, come early
December, folks would confidently shout out to friends, relatives and
passersby: “Merry Christmas!” They would place mangers and images of Santa,
himself, in their work places. You can’t do that, now.
We have all grown terribly,
excessively, sensitive to even the remote possibility that we might, by wanting
to spread the “Christmas Spirit," offend somebody.
Instead of “Merry
Christmas,” we responsible adults have increasingly been trained to say, “Happy
Holidays.” Instead of Christmas cards, we now send generic “Season’s
Greetings.” I guess we don’t buy Christmas trees, anymore. Those things, by
now, are probably called “Holiday Trees,” or “Season’s trees," or just
plain, old, pines.
Here’s my take on that:
Maybe we should all just lighten up! Maybe those of us who believe in Christmas
should feel comfortable in sharing that spirit and those greetings, without
reservation. Maybe our Jewish friends, who believe in Hanukkah, should feel
equally comfortable in expressing the joys of that particular season to those
who happen not to be Jewish. The same should apply, of course, to our Muslim,
Hindu or Yoruba friends, or those who believe in Kwanzaa.
Rather than take umbrage at
innocent expressions of “seasonal goodwill,” maybe we should just roll with it,
not be offended, and take full advantage of the opportunities to learn more
about cultures and celebrations about which we have not been familiar.
God knows we need it.
This year let’s take a cue
from the little ones and let’s spare them, as long as possible, from having to
adapt to our own curmudgeonly lifestyles.
Life’s hard enough as it
is.
And, hey, before I forget:
“Merry Christmas!”
what year was KWANZZA started?
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